The first deals with the employee>
I pay your salary but only you are the boss of you. Take ownership of yourself and demonstrate the qualities that make you a good boss and you will succeed. Practice the qualities that make you a poor boss and you’ll be out of business. My business and every other you attempt.
The second deals with the boss>
As my own boss, I seek the opinions of others, I rely on the industry, skills and ingenuity of others but ultimately my decisions and actions are my own.
I owe you, my employee, the training, direction and resources you need to get the job done – correctly, on time and on budget. Then I need to leave you alone to do your job (or I’m doing your job for you). When something doesn’t happen it is because at least one of us dropped the ball.
Finding fault to criticize is foolish and wasteful.
Finding fault to avoid mistakes in the future is just good practice.
Third and last, for everybody>
Good relationships can only deal in the same currency.
If I want someone to be loyal – I must be loyal.
If I want someone to be dedicated – I must be dedicated.
If I want someone to be honest – I must be honest with them.
If someone returns industry with sloth or
trust with dishonesty – bad relationship.
and that having been said – money doesn’t buy loyalty to you,
money only buys loyaty to money.